There's a whole map of your body no one showed you in sex ed. Not the reproductive diagram. The one that shows where pleasure lives, how it moves, and what actually has to happen for your body to say 'yes.' Let me show you.

Have you ever wondered why you don't feel "in the mood" on queue, while it seems like everyone else does? Or why your partner seems ready to go at any moment, but you need more time and the right context? As it happens, there are two completely normal types of sexual desire and it’s possible to know which one you’re experiencing.

Vaginismus is when the muscles around the vaginal opening involuntarily tighten, making penetration painful, difficult, or impossible. This can happen during sex, when using tampons, or during pelvic exams. If this sounds familiar there is hope. Read on…